Lighting a candle tonight ...


For Ken, who passed away on January 3,
and for his family who will miss him.

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Jan said…
I'm sorry. If you go to www.gratefulness.org, you can light a cyber candle. (Go to features and click on candles)
10:55 PM
Judy Vaughan-Sterling said…
Jan,

Thanks! What a good tip!

Judy
10:28 AM
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